What would Jesus want to hear when you pray to Him

Sacred Heart of Jesus Picture

You may recall the phrase “What would Jesus do?”  Now I want to write about another question:  What does Jesus want to hear when you pray to Him?

The question came to mind when I thought how Jesus might want us to pray.  There is no real formula, but there is the beginning (ask Him to be with you), the middle (where you and He converse) and then the ending (where you say thanks and say good night, or see You later).  So I decided jot a few things down to be more clear what I think Jesus might want to hear when we pray to Him. I’m not a great expert, but I have read a few books and listened to a few homilies in my years on earth.  So here goes (just think of these and see where maybe you could add a few more things of your own – make the list long!):

  1. You call His name and ask Him to be with you.
  2. You tell him how you did that day (p.m.) or how you are grateful for the new day (a.m.).
  3. He wants you to be as candid as you can be. Give him a lot of ideas on how you wish your day should have been, how you could have done things better, ask His help on some knotty problem!
  4. Talk to Him like He was your best friend because He is. Tell Him you aren’t that happy about someone who is such and such, or tell Him you think that someone you should love is not lovable to you. Things that bother you about the establishment, politics (He won’t take sides in this – He wants your opinion) or, even how the Church is being run. Tell Him anything as long as you think this is true. Just be frank and open. No holds barred. He’s there for you.
  5. Ask Him to watch over you, your spouse, children, parents, siblings, friends – the guy down the street whoever you like – even the President. He will.
  6. Tell Him your needs, your wishes; make it something big, or just a small wish even. You can start small and then ask Him to help with something big – if it’s something good for you.
  7. Ask Him to help you to believe that dreams do come true
  8. Make Him happy by telling Him that you love Him, that you are grateful for His blessings, that you want to believe in Him more and more.
  9. Make Him be your constant friend and companion.
  10. Let Him be Your guide and ask Him to be with you in your work, your play and your quiet rest times

The Five Loves

Michelangelo GodThe Five Loves

God the Father’s Love:
In the beginning was God the Father, the Creator, who loved US into being. His love is boundless, all encompassing, and infinite. He looks upon us, his children with a fatherly love, a love that provides for our needs. His love anticipates what we wish for, what is good for us, and what will serve us in our future path.

Mary our Mother:
When Mary became the Mother of Jesus, the Mother of God, she became our Mother when, from the Cross, He said to John, the Apostle, “Son, behold your Mother.” The Blessed Mother Mary is our path to Jesus. She tells Him of our needs, if we ask her. She loves us and helps us when we call upon her in our daily prayers. Mary brings Jesus to us. Mary is also the one who brings us the Holy Spirit, for He dwells in her from the time she was born.

God the Father, through Mary, gave us Jesus Christ, Who came down to save us from sin.

The Holy Spirit’s Love:
The Love of God the Father and Jesus created the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit forms the Triune God, with God the Father and Jesus.

A Mother’s Love:
The love of a mother is nurturing, forming her children into living vessels of the Holy Spirit. In the act of creating children, a mother and father include God to provide that Holy Spark that enlivens the living being in the mother’s womb. This assures us that we are all connected to God as His, imprinted with His sign of belonging, elevated in the world as no other could without His grace.

A Father’s Love:
The love of a father on earth for his children is like that of our Heavenly Father. He is the provider, the responsible one for his family, the go-to person for financial need and for the keys to the car. Yet the greatest gift a father can give to his children is to love their mother as much as he possibly can. With this and with God’s help, a family can thrive even in the most difficult of environments.

The Spousal Love:
The most important love is that of the love of a Spouse. For a married couple, this love is for the other. The Spousal love is a beautiful thing, enlivens their relationship, brightens their thoughts, creates new life, and completes each other.

For a single person, who decides to commit themselves to a religious life, that Spousal love is for Jesus Christ, and it is He that the profess to serve, to obey and be connected to in adoration, prayer, and in service to others. This is exemplified by such as St. Mother Teresa of Calcutta, St. Therése of Lisieux, and Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen.

For a single person who decides to remain so, the Spousal love still exists if they but profess to love Jesus Christ as their Spouse. These are the ones who devote their existence to serve the Lord, to be spiritual parents of those who they care for in some way – such as their students, nieces and nephews, and godchildren.

Thus, each of us in God’s life, has His love and each of us must be confident of His love and deep care for us. God is INTERESTED in us, how we are doing in life, what problems we have and how best to solve them.

Include God in your daily life, from the moment you awaken, throughout the day, and at the end of the day. Speak to God of love and how you want that for yourself someday. Ask Him candidly to pick Someone Special for you. God knows how to choose – and He will find that exact, special one for you. If He desires to keep you for Himself, then He will give you the grace to understand and dwell in His love as a single person. No one is ever alone in this life (or in the next) because God is with them always.

Merry Christmas

Good Merry Christmas to Everyone!

I am somehow surprised every time Christmas arrives.  I think ahead, usually, with buying presents, or sending out Christmas Cards, and hopefully never fail to give some stocking stuffers to those in my workplace.  But it is somehow still a big Surprise.  All of a sudden, it’s Christmas.

This year, a good friend passed away – well, actually, two good friends.  One of them passed just a few weeks ago, which took everyone by surprise.  Again that element of Surprise.  I sometimes wonder what it is that makes this a Season of surprises.  My friend was only in her mid-50’s, a very chic, loving Mom, who liked her job, worked hard, had numerous friends, and traveled frequently.  So her passing was so stunning to all who knew her that it bears pause.  Not because of all that I said about her, but because there must be a reason for people in our lives, good people, to be taken to God so soon.

So I don’t intend to guess what God’s reasons are for taking His children so soon before their (supposed) time, or soon before the Holidays.  But I guess I want to say this is something that might be because God cares so much for His children that He might want to arm them with more Heavenly allies than earthly ones.  In that sense, maybe my two good friends became my Spiritual allies than earthly ones.

When Mom passed I was very very sad, but then I realized that her passing only meant that she could pray exclusively for me and Dad, and for all her family and friends.  That is now her full time job. The same with my two good friends.

So for Christmas, think of those who have passed and thank God that they are now closer to us than they ever were.

Merry Merry Christmas to all! XOXO